Tolanibaj, a former participant on the reality show Big Brother Naija and a disc jockey, recently shared an experience in which she recalled being dumped by all seven men she had dated in the past. This revelation came during a recent episode of the Bahd and Boujee Podcast, which she co-hosts with actress Moet Abebe.
Tolanibaj expressed her disappointment, stating that she had believed each of these men would be her future husband, only to have her hopes dashed.
Feeling frustrated, Tolanibaj went on to express her belief that the dating pool is now filled with what she referred to as “remnants.”
She laments that all the genuinely desirable men seem to have already been taken, leaving behind individuals who may not meet her standards.
Daniel Etim-Effiong, who was a guest on the podcast, offered a counterpoint. He suggested that if Tolanibaj believed she was perfect, it could be a potential reason why all seven men chose to end their relationships with her. He gently challenged her to consider that the problem might lie within herself rather than solely blaming these men for the failed connections.
Tolanibaj shared her personal experience of being repeatedly dumped by the men she has dated in the past. While expressing disappointment, she also acknowledged her own role in these outcomes.
