Renowned singer Simisola Kosoko, popularly referred to as Simi, has emphasized the need for Nigerian families to reconsider their high expectations of their eldest children.
She expressed that holding the position of the firstborn should not imply being responsible for fulfilling every financial need within the family.
As a mother herself, Simi pointed out that many firstborns have experienced overwhelming stress and anxiety due to the constant financial demands placed upon them by their family members.
She advised firstborns to prioritize their own well-being by establishing clear boundaries when it comes to providing assistance to family members, affirming that they also deserve peace and stability in their lives.
She wrote:
“Y’all need to let your first borns breathe. They came first does not mean they should carry everybody’s load. Many of them don’t even like you anymore, because when you text them na so so panic attack. They’re just not allowed to say it. Let them breathe.
“Also, first born sef learn how to say no and set boundaries. You deserve peace too.”
